Usually, when asked for references you can just say that you rather not have them contact your current employer since you don't want to disclose just yet that you are leaving. It's a pretty common situation, so they should understand it. Instead, you can offer references from an older employer or a colleague that you trust from your current company (that won't tell your employer about you looking for a job.)
You should not tell your employer, since once you tell them, they will have an eye on you and they might fire and replace you on the first chance they have. Also, telling them won't guarantee you to get good references from them (Remember, you just told them you are going to abandon the company. They might not be very happy about it). You might end up jobless and without a backup.
Best thing to do is not tell them about you leaving, explain to the police forces that you rather them not contact your current employer and wait to see what they say. As I said, it is a pretty common situation.
About you being tied to long term projects, you can't avoid it. People leave their companies during long term projects all the time. If you want to be nice to your company, just work on whatever they tell you to work on and document everything so the next guy can easily pick up your work when you leave.
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2 years ago
Over the last few days I have decided that I need to get a new job. I say need because my current one has me feeling unhappy, demotivated and it makes my evenings and weekends less enjoyable at the thought of going in the next day - it's a real struggle to get out of bed in the morning for the same reason.
Currently I'm a software developer in the UK. I'm looking at a change of industry and I'm not really enjoying working within IT and being stuck in an office and in front of a screen all day, every day.
One option that I've got is to apply into my local police force, but I noticed on their application form it asks for current employer details so that they can contact them for a reference. I'm now unsure as to whether or not I should tell my employer that I'm actively looking for a change (and whether or not to say it's for my personal, mental health reasons).
I know it's widely recommended not to until an interview/position is lined up, but will a reference be asked for before any interview takes place? It seems more respectful to let him know that I'm looking, that way reference requests won't be such a surprise.
Additionally, there's been talk of a few long-term projects that I'd be taking on which could go on for a few months or even a year or more, which I don't want to be taking on as it would massively delay me leaving.
Should I tell him? Will a reference be asked for before or after an interview? How do I stop myself being tied into a long-term project?